The problem can be solved if the family goes the money that is spent on the maintenance of orphanages
They decided not to complain and to ask for help, because they ’ s adoptive parents. In need of a priori children will not. They loved other people’s kids as a family and ready to warm children’s hearts. But desire is not enough, you need a strong material base. While state officials decide how to make children’s homes have closed, the adoptive parents know for sure if the family will go the amount that is spent on the maintenance of boarding schools, the need for them will disappear once and for all.
What orphans “fly” the state a lot of money, for anybody not a secret. According to the Ombudsman for children’s rights Pavel Astakhov, per child in the public institutions spent from 300 thousand to 1 million in a year, from 25 to 83 thousand a month. It is clear that this amount includes not only the content of the pupil, but also personnel costs, expensive repairs, etc.
“I came to the post of Commissioner for children’s rights, has travelled around the country, looked and gasped: what money is being spent!” – said the Ombudsman.
The human rights activist thinks: “it Continue reading
“What would the child have anything he wants — just do not cry” — I think parents, inventing means to take a crying baby, so he didn’t disturb them to do their business. However, folk wisdom that gave birth to the proverb, in another: the child should not cry.
Crying is the only child a way to communicate with the outside world. This way the baby expresses its discomfort, the hunger, that he is bad. A healthy well-groomed the baby will not cry if eliminated all the probable cause of his discomfort.
These are the main causes of crying newborn:
the need for physical contact with the mother;
the hunger, the desire to take the breast, to satisfy the sucking reflex;
anxiety or fear (toddler could scare a sharp sound or bright light);
the feeling of fatigue, a desire to sleep ;
the need to empty the bowel or bladder;
malaise (intracranial pressure, hypertonia, hypotonia, irritability, early infectious or respiratory diseases, skin disease or rash, physiological phenomenon of the adaptation period abdominal pain, colic);
discomfort, uncomfortable position (baby can change position);
dissatisfaction with contact with the mother or the environment;
the desire to shake;
reaction to geomagnetic Continue reading
Fear of sleeping alone comes with a list of the most common childhood fears. The reasons may be different: the habit child sleep with the parents, the overexcitation of the nervous system, long-standing fear, fear of losing a parent, sudden life changes, conflicts in the family, personal experiences. How to be in a similar situation?
Why the child is afraid
Fear and anxiety is a natural emotional reaction. As you Mature your baby his new fears. What are the most popular causes fear to sleep separately?
Fear of change in life . For young children it can be a new cot, moving to the nursery, waiting for guests or long trips. For older kids – the excitement before entering the school, before an exam, leaving the parental home. Again, any painful condition can cause fear to fall asleep.
Fear of fabulous and fictional child characters . The tale teaches a lot but sometimes it becomes a cause for fear. Do not scare the child the Bogeyman and Baba Yaga. Their children are really afraid, and quiet noises or stir the curtains take for the appearance of monsters.
Overexcitation . No wonder grandma say “not Continue reading