Chapter from the Handbook for nurses ’s Successful breastfeeding and psychological unity of the mother-child”, written by order of the Ministry of health with support from who/UNICEF
During the first three months of life, all babies cry a lot. Crying — this is the only way a newborn the mother to report that he is bad. To the baby form a good a good impression about the world, none of his request for assistance should not be neglected. Moreover, the mother’s reaction should be immediate. The sooner the mother comes to the child for help, the less it suffers the nervous system and the more favorable is his impression of the new environment.
Interestingly, the relationship between mother and child crying dictates her intellectual level and cultural roots. The children of Americans and natives in Western Europe cry more often and longer and this is due to the mother’s reaction to the great rallying cry of a baby. Anthropologist at Cornell University and author of the book “Our children, ourselves” Meredith small says: “In the West, the mother responds to the cry of their child, on average, after one minute — she usually picks him up and soothes. Children, born there, where still remained primitive civilization of hunters and gatherers (in Botswana, for example), cry as often, but time — half. Continue reading
Popularity adoption in Belarus is growing. It sees not only armed with statistics specialist (, but any casual visitor on issues adoption of Internet forums. “Intrauterine pregnancy or narodnosna – what is the difference in principle?” – one notices pending the completion of the procedure of adoption mom. From imitating the pregnancy with the help of pillows predecessors it separates two decades. Belarusians during this period of time has changed.
– We not only develop the legislative framework for the adoption and methods of working with adopted children by families, but the philosophy and form of adoption, – says the Director of the National center of adoption of the Ministry of education of Belarus Pospelova Natalia. – With the help of the press and adoptive parents were able to debunk popular myths – “genes don’t crush” and “the Apple never falls far from the tree”. Today’s adoptive parents know that heredity and experience of early childhood is not fatal, the result of the upbringing of the child is determined by the environment. The last myth is: “if I truly love someone else’s child?” Adoptive parents who Express such doubts, we recall that they are legally married. Therefore, already in love with another person Continue reading
Yesterday he was an angel, and today threw a fit in the middle of the store. Mother ready to cry? ‘t need. Your child becomes an independent individual. Help him!
Two-year-old angrily tosses the toy in a beloved grandfather or loud yelling in the store, demanding the typewriter, the eighth in his collection. Everything seems to condemn you. You feel ashamed? And you should be proud of (if you have the strength). This emotional outburst is a sign that the baby develops properly. He begins to realize the importance of their desires and wants to influence your own life.
Try to understand what is happening with the baby, and teach him to behave appropriately.
What are they thinking?
Children live for today. The word “then”, “later”, “soon” is minor for them. And desires babies are very strong, and they can’t understand what you want. Trying to get his kids use proven weapon: screaming, crying, stamping feet and even rolling on the floor – the most effective way to force myself to listen when words are not enough. Two to three year old toddler is not yet so well says, to Express his overflowing feelings, Continue reading