“What would the child have anything he wants — just do not cry” — I think parents, inventing means to take a crying baby, so he didn’t disturb them to do their business. However, folk wisdom that gave birth to the proverb, in another: the child should not cry.
Crying is the only child a way to communicate with the outside world. This way the baby expresses its discomfort, the hunger, that he is bad. A healthy well-groomed the baby will not cry if eliminated all the probable cause of his discomfort.
These are the main causes of crying newborn:
the need for physical contact with the mother;
the hunger, the desire to take the breast, to satisfy the sucking reflex;
anxiety or fear (toddler could scare a sharp sound or bright light);
the feeling of fatigue, a desire to sleep ;
the need to empty the bowel or bladder;
malaise (intracranial pressure, hypertonia, hypotonia, irritability, early infectious or respiratory diseases, skin disease or rash, physiological phenomenon of the adaptation period abdominal pain, colic);
discomfort, uncomfortable position (baby can change position);
dissatisfaction with contact with the mother or the environment;
the desire to shake;
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Fear of sleeping alone comes with a list of the most common childhood fears. The reasons may be different: the habit child sleep with the parents, the overexcitation of the nervous system, long-standing fear, fear of losing a parent, sudden life changes, conflicts in the family, personal experiences. How to be in a similar situation?
Why the child is afraid
Fear and anxiety is a natural emotional reaction. As you Mature your baby his new fears. What are the most popular causes fear to sleep separately?
Fear of change in life . For young children it can be a new cot, moving to the nursery, waiting for guests or long trips. For older kids – the excitement before entering the school, before an exam, leaving the parental home. Again, any painful condition can cause fear to fall asleep.
Fear of fabulous and fictional child characters . The tale teaches a lot but sometimes it becomes a cause for fear. Do not scare the child the Bogeyman and Baba Yaga. Their children are really afraid, and quiet noises or stir the curtains take for the appearance of monsters.
Overexcitation . No wonder grandma say “not Continue reading
As is often said about unconditional love and imply adoration! And Vice versa: for adoration does not distinguish love. It seems to be very close to these concepts: in both cases the child is important, listened to, valued. Until parents begin to listen to other’s advice and experience . the confusion is not terrible. Recently tried to convince my mom how important it is to support the child in harmless pranks and to love unconditionally – in reply she said that the son will grow up to be selfish without shame or conscience. And nailed me examples of who you where and I adore my little son and daughters took down their lives in the sewer. Not all are notable for the huge gap between unconditional love and devotion . We try to identify?
The adoration originally blindly . it assumes the presence of an idol . infallible and perfect. Perhaps, many people familiar with the situation, when the family by the full circling of the child – “the bright sun” and fulfills all his whims. Wants a child the moon – parents and chase after her. Familiar eldest daughter was raised as a Princess . She was adored by all, and borders that was not. Praised the girl for the most minor things, her talents were lifted up incredibly high and was shown all around. The child Continue reading