Unconditional love is an essential part of parental care. Without the existence of love without conditions to any child it’s hard to feel loved and welcome. I want to suggest to read some pedagogical theory about how we can Express the deep sense of love and gratitude to the child or young person, that we genuinely feel for him. The majority of parents, teachers, caregivers truly love children. But the question is, is the kids know that we really love them unselfishly and always, no matter what the conditions?
Why is it important for the child to feel that he is loved? Because in the period of childhood in every person creates his or her own “I”. In the same period, the child learns about the reliability or the hostile world into which he came, to develop a sense of confidence to yourself and others. Dose of love received in childhood, the child will develop the appropriate attitude. We adults are responsible for something that the child has received enough joy, positive emotions, warmth and generosity.
All the complexity is that the child is still small, he sees and perceives the world and adults are not the way we do. Children are not able to think critically and analyze our words, actions. They perceive every word we say, perfect action.
Children are a blank sheet of paper that you will write, and read. The child Continue reading
Popularity adoption in Belarus is growing. It sees not only armed with statistics specialist (, but any casual visitor on issues adoption of Internet forums. “Intrauterine pregnancy or narodnosna – what is the difference in principle?” – one notices pending the completion of the procedure of adoption mom. From imitating the pregnancy with the help of pillows predecessors it separates two decades. Belarusians during this period of time has changed.
– We not only develop the legislative framework for the adoption and methods of working with adopted children by families, but the philosophy and form of adoption, – says the Director of the National center of adoption of the Ministry of education of Belarus Pospelova Natalia. – With the help of the press and adoptive parents were able to debunk popular myths – “genes don’t crush” and “the Apple never falls far from the tree”. Today’s adoptive parents know that heredity and experience of early childhood is not fatal, the result of the upbringing of the child is determined by the environment. The last myth is: “if I truly love someone else’s child?” Adoptive parents who Express such doubts, we recall that they are legally married. Therefore, already in love with another person Continue reading
Yesterday he was an angel, and today threw a fit in the middle of the store. Mother ready to cry? ‘t need. Your child becomes an independent individual. Help him!
Two-year-old angrily tosses the toy in a beloved grandfather or loud yelling in the store, demanding the typewriter, the eighth in his collection. Everything seems to condemn you. You feel ashamed? And you should be proud of (if you have the strength). This emotional outburst is a sign that the baby develops properly. He begins to realize the importance of their desires and wants to influence your own life.
Try to understand what is happening with the baby, and teach him to behave appropriately.
What are they thinking?
Children live for today. The word “then”, “later”, “soon” is minor for them. And desires babies are very strong, and they can’t understand what you want. Trying to get his kids use proven weapon: screaming, crying, stamping feet and even rolling on the floor – the most effective way to force myself to listen when words are not enough. Two to three year old toddler is not yet so well says, to Express his overflowing feelings, Continue reading