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The WORK of a SOCIAL PEDAGOGUE WITH CHILDREN FROM DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES

The work of a social pedagogue with children from dysfunctional families in school as part of the prevention of the use of narcotic and psychoactive substances

E. A. Zanozin

Municipal budgetary educational institution “Secondary school №41. Vladimir Sizov”, Kursk

“. I kept picturing little kids play in the evening in a huge field in the rye. Thousands of kids, and all around — not a soul, not a single adult, except me. And I’m standing on the edge of a cliff over the abyss. And my job is keeping the kids, so they don’t fall off the cliff. So all my work…. To guard children catcher in the rye…”

The passage quoted from the book by J. Salinger’s “catcher in the rye” is very accurate, in my opinion, characterizes the work of the social teacher in the modern school. The complexity of modern social processes, their high dynamism often produce different kinds of deviations in the behavior of students. Increasingly in our society, there is a trend of dysfunctional families, originating in consequence of the disengagement of parents from the decision of issues of education and personal development of the child. Not always this kind of problems immediately catches Continue reading

The Child is afraid to sleep alone: 8 ways to overcome night terrors

 

Fear of sleeping alone comes with a list of the most common childhood fears. The reasons may be different: the habit child sleep with the parents, the overexcitation of the nervous system, long-standing fear, fear of losing a parent, sudden life changes, conflicts in the family, personal experiences. How to be in a similar situation?

Why the child is afraid

Fear and anxiety is a natural emotional reaction. As you Mature your baby his new fears. What are the most popular causes fear to sleep separately?

Fear of change in life . For young children it can be a new cot, moving to the nursery, waiting for guests or long trips. For older kids – the excitement before entering the school, before an exam, leaving the parental home. Again, any painful condition can cause fear to fall asleep.

Fear of fabulous and fictional child characters . The tale teaches a lot but sometimes it becomes a cause for fear. Do not scare the child the Bogeyman and Baba Yaga. Their children are really afraid, and quiet noises or stir the curtains take for the appearance of monsters.

Overexcitation . No wonder grandma say “not Continue reading

Unconditional love or blind adoration?

 

As is often said about unconditional love and imply adoration! And Vice versa: for adoration does not distinguish love. It seems to be very close to these concepts: in both cases the child is important, listened to, valued. Until parents begin to listen to other’s advice and experience . the confusion is not terrible. Recently tried to convince my mom how important it is to support the child in harmless pranks and to love unconditionally – in reply she said that the son will grow up to be selfish without shame or conscience. And nailed me examples of who you where and I adore my little son and daughters took down their lives in the sewer. Not all are notable for the huge gap between unconditional love and devotion . We try to identify?

The adoration originally blindly . it assumes the presence of an idol . infallible and perfect. Perhaps, many people familiar with the situation, when the family by the full circling of the child – “the bright sun” and fulfills all his whims. Wants a child the moon – parents and chase after her. Familiar eldest daughter was raised as a Princess . She was adored by all, and borders that was not. Praised the girl for the most minor things, her talents were lifted up incredibly high and was shown all around. The child Continue reading