Each person needs to acquire such habits that were his “friends” and not “enemies” to assist them to live and work, and not interfere in my life to not have to waste a lot of energy to deal with them.
This makes it clear that the task of teachers is to educate students good habits and the elimination of harmful. And to do it best in an earlier age, when the plasticity of the nervous system in children is still quite high. Child rearing is largely supposed to be the nurturing of good habits.
A. S. Makarenko wrote: “I admit that may be a point when the student will be correct, Soviet Patriotic views, but not brought up correctly by the Soviet habit. This is especially important when it comes to the upbringing of such qualities as patience, the ability to overcome a long period of difficulties, to take obstacles with a jerk, and pressure. No matter how much you created the right ideas about what to do, but if you don’t nurture habits to overcome a long period of difficulties, I have the right to say that nothing you have brought up. In short, I demand that the children’s lives was organized as the experience of raising a certain group of habits. ”
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The problem can be solved if the family goes the money that is spent on the maintenance of orphanages
They decided not to complain and to ask for help, because they ’ s adoptive parents. In need of a priori children will not. They loved other people’s kids as a family and ready to warm children’s hearts. But desire is not enough, you need a strong material base. While state officials decide how to make children’s homes have closed, the adoptive parents know for sure if the family will go the amount that is spent on the maintenance of boarding schools, the need for them will disappear once and for all.
What orphans “fly” the state a lot of money, for anybody not a secret. According to the Ombudsman for children’s rights Pavel Astakhov, per child in the public institutions spent from 300 thousand to 1 million in a year, from 25 to 83 thousand a month. It is clear that this amount includes not only the content of the pupil, but also personnel costs, expensive repairs, etc.
“I came to the post of Commissioner for children’s rights, has travelled around the country, looked and gasped: what money is being spent!” – said the Ombudsman.
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As is often said about unconditional love and imply adoration! And Vice versa: for adoration does not distinguish love. It seems to be very close to these concepts: in both cases the child is important, listened to, valued. Until parents begin to listen to other’s advice and experience . the confusion is not terrible. Recently tried to convince my mom how important it is to support the child in harmless pranks and to love unconditionally – in reply she said that the son will grow up to be selfish without shame or conscience. And nailed me examples of who you where and I adore my little son and daughters took down their lives in the sewer. Not all are notable for the huge gap between unconditional love and devotion . We try to identify?
The adoration originally blindly . it assumes the presence of an idol . infallible and perfect. Perhaps, many people familiar with the situation, when the family by the full circling of the child – “the bright sun” and fulfills all his whims. Wants a child the moon – parents and chase after her. Familiar eldest daughter was raised as a Princess . She was adored by all, and borders that was not. Praised the girl for the most minor things, her talents were lifted up incredibly high and was shown all around. The child Continue reading