Parenting without punishments and cry
The efficiency of the presented here educational methods has been repeatedly confirmed in practice. If in the process of upbringing you usually resort to shouting and punishments, then this book will help you to rethink…

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Where is the best to teach your child — in Ukraine or abroad?
  This discussion vividly recalls the situation of the well-known anecdote about the impoverished and the new Russian. "I haven't eaten in three days!" says the beggar. "No, that's not acceptable", says new Russian. "You…

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Adaptation of first-graders to school
Your first day of school first graders are looking forward and very excited, because they begin a new "adult" life. For parents beginning of school life is also a serious challenge and a cause for…

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What to do with the child during the summer

 

Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!

But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.

Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.

I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.

The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.

Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that it was one and the same time and not too late. It is important to teach a child to do morning exercises, to do it with him. In this there are clear benefits and advantages Continue reading

Where is the best to teach your child — in Ukraine or abroad?

 

This discussion vividly recalls the situation of the well-known anecdote about the impoverished and the new Russian. “I haven’t eaten in three days!” says the beggar. “No, that’s not acceptable”, says new Russian. “You need to make an effort and eat something!”

Funny, but literally the same answer I heard recently at an education forum. Famous politician said: “When I saw what chaos going on in our schools, I realized that the problem should be solved radically. Now my son is studying in Switzerland and I am very satisfied. So — I recommend.”

It is clear that not only the school but also the country of residence you can choose to your taste and budget, “but you know, son, there is such a word — homeland,” reads another, equally well-known anecdote. So try without much emotion, objectively and impartially consider all the pros and cons of learning how to “here” and training “there”.

First, you need to consider that such a unified and regulated education, as we know, nowhere else in the world (except maybe Belarus and some Central Asian States). Even Russia has a much more liberal and humane education legislation. Suffice it to cite the following Continue reading

Expression of unconditional love

Unconditional love is an essential part of parental care. Without the existence of love without conditions to any child it’s hard to feel loved and welcome. I want to suggest to read some pedagogical theory about how we can Express the deep sense of love and gratitude to the child or young person, that we genuinely feel for him. The majority of parents, teachers, caregivers truly love children. But the question is, is the kids know that we really love them unselfishly and always, no matter what the conditions?

Why is it important for the child to feel that he is loved? Because in the period of childhood in every person creates his or her own “I”. In the same period, the child learns about the reliability or the hostile world into which he came, to develop a sense of confidence to yourself and others. Dose of love received in childhood, the child will develop the appropriate attitude. We adults are responsible for something that the child has received enough joy, positive emotions, warmth and generosity.

All the complexity is that the child is still small, he sees and perceives the world and adults are not the way we do. Children are not able to think critically and analyze our words, actions. They perceive every word we say, perfect action.

Children are a blank sheet of paper that you will write, and read. The child Continue reading