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The WORK of a SOCIAL PEDAGOGUE WITH CHILDREN FROM DYSFUNCTIONAL FAMILIES

The work of a social pedagogue with children from dysfunctional families in school as part of the prevention of the use of narcotic and psychoactive substances

E. A. Zanozin

Municipal budgetary educational institution “Secondary school №41. Vladimir Sizov”, Kursk

“. I kept picturing little kids play in the evening in a huge field in the rye. Thousands of kids, and all around — not a soul, not a single adult, except me. And I’m standing on the edge of a cliff over the abyss. And my job is keeping the kids, so they don’t fall off the cliff. So all my work…. To guard children catcher in the rye…”

The passage quoted from the book by J. Salinger’s “catcher in the rye” is very accurate, in my opinion, characterizes the work of the social teacher in the modern school. The complexity of modern social processes, their high dynamism often produce different kinds of deviations in the behavior of students. Increasingly in our society, there is a trend of dysfunctional families, originating in consequence of the disengagement of parents from the decision of issues of education and personal development of the child. Not always this kind of problems immediately catches Continue reading

The Education of habits in primary school children

Each person needs to acquire such habits that were his “friends” and not “enemies” to assist them to live and work, and not interfere in my life to not have to waste a lot of energy to deal with them.

This makes it clear that the task of teachers is to educate students good habits and the elimination of harmful. And to do it best in an earlier age, when the plasticity of the nervous system in children is still quite high. Child rearing is largely supposed to be the nurturing of good habits.

A. S. Makarenko wrote: “I admit that may be a point when the student will be correct, Soviet Patriotic views, but not brought up correctly by the Soviet habit. This is especially important when it comes to the upbringing of such qualities as patience, the ability to overcome a long period of difficulties, to take obstacles with a jerk, and pressure. No matter how much you created the right ideas about what to do, but if you don’t nurture habits to overcome a long period of difficulties, I have the right to say that nothing you have brought up. In short, I demand that the children’s lives was organized as the experience of raising a certain group of habits. ”

To develop habits need to repeat the action. But repetition Continue reading

Unconditional love or blind adoration?

 

As is often said about unconditional love and imply adoration! And Vice versa: for adoration does not distinguish love. It seems to be very close to these concepts: in both cases the child is important, listened to, valued. Until parents begin to listen to other’s advice and experience . the confusion is not terrible. Recently tried to convince my mom how important it is to support the child in harmless pranks and to love unconditionally – in reply she said that the son will grow up to be selfish without shame or conscience. And nailed me examples of who you where and I adore my little son and daughters took down their lives in the sewer. Not all are notable for the huge gap between unconditional love and devotion . We try to identify?

The adoration originally blindly . it assumes the presence of an idol . infallible and perfect. Perhaps, many people familiar with the situation, when the family by the full circling of the child – “the bright sun” and fulfills all his whims. Wants a child the moon – parents and chase after her. Familiar eldest daughter was raised as a Princess . She was adored by all, and borders that was not. Praised the girl for the most minor things, her talents were lifted up incredibly high and was shown all around. The child Continue reading