This discussion vividly recalls the situation of the well-known anecdote about the impoverished and the new Russian. “I haven’t eaten in three days!” says the beggar. “No, that’s not acceptable”, says new Russian. “You need to make an effort and eat something!”
Funny, but literally the same answer I heard recently at an education forum. Famous politician said: “When I saw what chaos going on in our schools, I realized that the problem should be solved radically. Now my son is studying in Switzerland and I am very satisfied. So — I recommend.”
It is clear that not only the school but also the country of residence you can choose to your taste and budget, “but you know, son, there is such a word — homeland,” reads another, equally well-known anecdote. So try without much emotion, objectively and impartially consider all the pros and cons of learning how to “here” and training “there”.
First, you need to consider that such a unified and regulated education, as we know, nowhere else in the world (except maybe Belarus and some Central Asian States). Even Russia has a much more liberal and humane education legislation. Suffice it to cite the following Continue reading
Chapter from the Handbook for nurses ’s Successful breastfeeding and psychological unity of the mother-child”, written by order of the Ministry of health with support from who/UNICEF
During the first three months of life, all babies cry a lot. Crying — this is the only way a newborn the mother to report that he is bad. To the baby form a good a good impression about the world, none of his request for assistance should not be neglected. Moreover, the mother’s reaction should be immediate. The sooner the mother comes to the child for help, the less it suffers the nervous system and the more favorable is his impression of the new environment.
Interestingly, the relationship between mother and child crying dictates her intellectual level and cultural roots. The children of Americans and natives in Western Europe cry more often and longer and this is due to the mother’s reaction to the great rallying cry of a baby. Anthropologist at Cornell University and author of the book “Our children, ourselves” Meredith small says: “In the West, the mother responds to the cry of their child, on average, after one minute — she usually picks him up and soothes. Children, born there, where still remained primitive civilization of hunters and gatherers (in Botswana, for example), cry as often, but time — half. Continue reading
We are tired to fight it. Sometimes simply give up.
Home child, as a child, and in kindergarten – is someone not to give him a toy, or someone sits on the chair on which he wants, bites!
Here today. The girl took the cube, which he wanted. The son of rage. bit the BOY! Not a girl, and another boy, who happened to be there. Despite the bit so that the swollen hand!
At home we constantly teach, explain, say, children in pain; read, meditate, practice how to respond if you don’t like something. How to Express your feelings in words. Son soon 4 years, but he SPRR, and it is to be expressed by words. But still, that’s no excuse for wrong behavior. One garden we have already changed. I’m afraid I have to leave the second (((
Of course, children can not be beat. But there are times when it can be done. If the child began to bite, some good stops.
And no amount of persuasion will not help. up to a certain age, of course you can wait two years and not to admit him to children, but in this case he will lose a lot in its development.
I had such a case, the boy was bitten by another, once or twice. And then the boy was bitten Continue reading