The problem can be solved if the family goes the money that is spent on the maintenance of orphanages
They decided not to complain and to ask for help, because they ’ s adoptive parents. In need of a priori children will not. They loved other people’s kids as a family and ready to warm children’s hearts. But desire is not enough, you need a strong material base. While state officials decide how to make children’s homes have closed, the adoptive parents know for sure if the family will go the amount that is spent on the maintenance of boarding schools, the need for them will disappear once and for all.
What orphans “fly” the state a lot of money, for anybody not a secret. According to the Ombudsman for children’s rights Pavel Astakhov, per child in the public institutions spent from 300 thousand to 1 million in a year, from 25 to 83 thousand a month. It is clear that this amount includes not only the content of the pupil, but also personnel costs, expensive repairs, etc.
“I came to the post of Commissioner for children’s rights, has travelled around the country, looked and gasped: what money is being spent!” – said the Ombudsman.
The human rights activist thinks: “it Continue reading
This discussion vividly recalls the situation of the well-known anecdote about the impoverished and the new Russian. “I haven’t eaten in three days!” says the beggar. “No, that’s not acceptable”, says new Russian. “You need to make an effort and eat something!”
Funny, but literally the same answer I heard recently at an education forum. Famous politician said: “When I saw what chaos going on in our schools, I realized that the problem should be solved radically. Now my son is studying in Switzerland and I am very satisfied. So — I recommend.”
It is clear that not only the school but also the country of residence you can choose to your taste and budget, “but you know, son, there is such a word — homeland,” reads another, equally well-known anecdote. So try without much emotion, objectively and impartially consider all the pros and cons of learning how to “here” and training “there”.
First, you need to consider that such a unified and regulated education, as we know, nowhere else in the world (except maybe Belarus and some Central Asian States). Even Russia has a much more liberal and humane education legislation. Suffice it to cite the following Continue reading
We are tired to fight it. Sometimes simply give up.
Home child, as a child, and in kindergarten – is someone not to give him a toy, or someone sits on the chair on which he wants, bites!
Here today. The girl took the cube, which he wanted. The son of rage. bit the BOY! Not a girl, and another boy, who happened to be there. Despite the bit so that the swollen hand!
At home we constantly teach, explain, say, children in pain; read, meditate, practice how to respond if you don’t like something. How to Express your feelings in words. Son soon 4 years, but he SPRR, and it is to be expressed by words. But still, that’s no excuse for wrong behavior. One garden we have already changed. I’m afraid I have to leave the second (((
Of course, children can not be beat. But there are times when it can be done. If the child began to bite, some good stops.
And no amount of persuasion will not help. up to a certain age, of course you can wait two years and not to admit him to children, but in this case he will lose a lot in its development.
I had such a case, the boy was bitten by another, once or twice. And then the boy was bitten Continue reading