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Child bites other children

We are tired to fight it. Sometimes simply give up.

Home child, as a child, and in kindergarten – is someone not to give him a toy, or someone sits on the chair on which he wants, bites!

Here today. The girl took the cube, which he wanted. The son of rage. bit the BOY! Not a girl, and another boy, who happened to be there. Despite the bit so that the swollen hand!

At home we constantly teach, explain, say, children in pain; read, meditate, practice how to respond if you don’t like something. How to Express your feelings in words. Son soon 4 years, but he SPRR, and it is to be expressed by words. But still, that’s no excuse for wrong behavior. One garden we have already changed. I’m afraid I have to leave the second (((

Of course, children can not be beat. But there are times when it can be done. If the child began to bite, some good stops.

And no amount of persuasion will not help. up to a certain age, of course you can wait two years and not to admit him to children, but in this case he will lose a lot in its development.

I had such a case, the boy was bitten by another, once or twice. And then the boy was bitten by his mother, who tired to listen to the complaints of other parents. Sounds crazy, but it was their way out, he stopped biting.

And so of course it would be nice to drive a child to a child psychologist who will work with his aggression.

We are tired to fight it. Sometimes simply give up.

Here today. The girl took the cube, which he wanted. The son of rage. bit the BOY! Not a girl, and another boy, who happened to be there. Despite the bit so that the swollen hand!

At home we constantly teach, explain, say, children in pain; read, meditate, practice how to respond if you don’t like something. How to Express your feelings in words. Son soon 4 years, but he SPRR, and it is to be expressed by words. But still, that’s no excuse for wrong behavior. One garden we have already changed. I’m afraid I have to leave the second (((

And at home he behaves or similar? If so, in what situations?

We are tired to fight it. Sometimes simply give up.

Home child, as a child, and in kindergarten – is someone not to give him a toy, or someone sits on the chair on which he wants, bites!

Here today. The girl took the cube, which he wanted. The son of rage. bit the BOY! Not a girl, and another boy, who happened to be there. Despite the bit so that the swollen hand!

At home we constantly teach, explain, say, children in pain; read, meditate, practice how to respond if you don’t like something. How to Express your feelings in words. Son soon 4 years, but he SPRR, and it is to be expressed by words. But still, that’s no excuse for wrong behavior. One garden we have already changed. I’m afraid I have to leave the second (((

Children often bite for different reasons. And usually children that require attention.

The mere fact that “he use the words” children often bite when you can’t Express yourself with words. Usually with the development of speech, the habit of biting takes place.

Sometimes they bite, defending their toy or their territory (well, in their opinion, of course)

Your child long sucking a pacifier?

Sometimes the reason for the biting – muscle weakness and reduced tactile sensitivity of the oral cavity.

He eats carrots, apples (not pureed, namely, to gnawed and chewed?)

Try to engage with him more – to teach the child to blow bubbles, inflate the balloons, the harp or the flute, and something like that. Well, if t be able to invent a variety of exercises to strengthen the muscles of the mouth (as an imitation of action, about which I wrote above).

Well, of course, need explains that it hurt and so on. It is desirable to react at the very moment when the child was bitten (or even better, of course, be prevented, if You’re near once noticed that intends to bite – his hand to cover his mouth and say – “Biting is not” and immediately distract him with some other activity or toy (small) Child aged 4 years need to understand that they’re hurting, to comfort the one he had bitten him to see that You (or an adult who is near) I feel sorry for that bit.

By the way, the example Ivona -too bad, for an ordinary child. True. for a child with SPR, I think. it doesn’t quite fit.

And at home he behaves or similar? If so, in what situations?

No, he won’t bite. In principle, in the message I wrote that does this in the garden.

He eats carrots, apples (not pureed, namely, to gnawed and chewed?)

Try to engage with him more – to teach the child to blow bubbles, inflate the balloons, the harp or the flute, and something like that. Well, if t be able to invent a variety of exercises to strengthen the muscles of the mouth (as an imitation of action, about which I wrote above).

Oops. He doesn’t like to chew on a carrot or apples. Battered carrot, or Apple slices – please!

And whistles, pipes, and so I buy, including bubbles. A year ago he uttered hissing, and I thus stimulated its development.

With hissing helped

Well, of course, need explains that it hurt and so on. It is desirable to react at the very moment when the child was bitten (or even better, of course, be prevented, if You’re near once noticed that intends to bite – his hand to cover his mouth and say – “Biting is not” and immediately distract him with some other activity or toy (small) Child aged 4 years need to understand that they’re hurting, to comfort the one he had bitten him to see that You (or an adult who is near) I feel sorry for that bit.

As I wrote in the first post, we explain. Moreover, if ask: “to Bite you?” answer “No, Vava!”

Only with us, he won’t bite. And in kindergarten, where many children and teachers are few.

By the way, the example Ivona -too bad, for an ordinary child. True. for a child with SPR, I think. it doesn’t quite fit.

In the previous kindergarten teacher allowed the boy to bite his back. As a result, he began to come home bitten almost to the blood! Trace remained and on the next day! But the son was biting more often.