As is often said about unconditional love and imply adoration! And Vice versa: for adoration does not distinguish love. It seems to be very close to these concepts: in both cases the child is important, listened to, valued. Until parents begin to listen to other’s advice and experience . the confusion is not terrible. Recently tried to convince my mom how important it is to support the child in harmless pranks and to love unconditionally – in reply she said that the son will grow up to be selfish without shame or conscience. And nailed me examples of who you where and I adore my little son and daughters took down their lives in the sewer. Not all are notable for the huge gap between unconditional love and devotion . We try to identify?
The adoration originally blindly . it assumes the presence of an idol . infallible and perfect. Perhaps, many people familiar with the situation, when the family by the full circling of the child – “the bright sun” and fulfills all his whims. Wants a child the moon – parents and chase after her. Familiar eldest daughter was raised as a Princess . She was adored by all, and borders that was not. Praised the girl for the most minor things, her talents were lifted up incredibly high and was shown all around. The child Continue reading
Ended the school year, the long-awaited summer time: you can sleep as much as you like, no homework, no school – freedom, in a word!
But the parents now the question arises, what to do with the child, so that it will not go crazy from boredom and excess energy during the summer holidays, so as not brought to mind the immediate family and the time went to good use.
Of course, summer camps, kids clubs, etc. trip to village to the grandmother and the grandfather, vacation with her parents is a great idea. But, as a rule, free time still remains and it needed something to fill.
I offer readers Mirsovetov few ideas how to spend your summer holidays and leave time for boredom and idleness, for parents, or for those who will be with the child during the holidays at home.
The first thing I would like to say, is a very important mode of the day and its planning. So all day you with a child was based on a clear plan. Predictability and constancy give the child a sense of confidence and peace of mind, he knows what to do at one or another point of time.
Not necessarily stand up in alarm, and as early as in school, but it is desirable that it was one and the same time and not too late. It is important to teach a child to do morning exercises, to do it with him. In this there are clear benefits and advantages Continue reading
Part one, in which we will share the secrets of how to draw the Pope to the upbringing of the child after his birth, but up to this wonderful moment.
Once I shared with my colleague, an experienced and much older woman, that after the birth of her son, dad-husband along with me carried the day and night watch feeding, dressing, and education of the heir. What colleague waved his hand: “what! Man is not the lesson to bring up the crumbs . In our time this was not, and could manage. ”
Yes, times and manners are really changing. But not always for the worse – now the Pope is increasingly “move” mom on traditional female role.
The first stage, the preparatory
Let’s start with the fact that American scientists have discovered the so-called “the syndrome of impending fatherhood” . observed nearly a quarter of newly made fathers. Moreover, its peak this syndrome reaches 5-6 months of your pregnancy.
What is it manifested? — vagrancy, detachment . Do not worry, this does not mean that your husband will turn into a captain or go hitchhiking around the world. It can be a long and seemingly Continue reading
This discussion vividly recalls the situation of the well-known anecdote about the impoverished and the new Russian. “I haven’t eaten in three days!” says the beggar. “No, that’s not acceptable”, says new Russian. “You need to make an effort and eat something!”
Funny, but literally the same answer I heard recently at an education forum. Famous politician said: “When I saw what chaos going on in our schools, I realized that the problem should be solved radically. Now my son is studying in Switzerland and I am very satisfied. So — I recommend.”
It is clear that not only the school but also the country of residence you can choose to your taste and budget, “but you know, son, there is such a word — homeland,” reads another, equally well-known anecdote. So try without much emotion, objectively and impartially consider all the pros and cons of learning how to “here” and training “there”.
First, you need to consider that such a unified and regulated education, as we know, nowhere else in the world (except maybe Belarus and some Central Asian States). Even Russia has a much more liberal and humane education legislation. Suffice it to cite the following Continue reading
Chapter from the Handbook for nurses ’s Successful breastfeeding and psychological unity of the mother-child”, written by order of the Ministry of health with support from who/UNICEF
During the first three months of life, all babies cry a lot. Crying — this is the only way a newborn the mother to report that he is bad. To the baby form a good a good impression about the world, none of his request for assistance should not be neglected. Moreover, the mother’s reaction should be immediate. The sooner the mother comes to the child for help, the less it suffers the nervous system and the more favorable is his impression of the new environment.
Interestingly, the relationship between mother and child crying dictates her intellectual level and cultural roots. The children of Americans and natives in Western Europe cry more often and longer and this is due to the mother’s reaction to the great rallying cry of a baby. Anthropologist at Cornell University and author of the book “Our children, ourselves” Meredith small says: “In the West, the mother responds to the cry of their child, on average, after one minute — she usually picks him up and soothes. Children, born there, where still remained primitive civilization of hunters and gatherers (in Botswana, for example), cry as often, but time — half. Continue reading